K-pop Songs For When Life Gets Hard

Q: What is a song that helped you through a difficult time?

 

Contrary to the title of this post, I know it's not K-pop, but Coldplay's 'Fix You' is always the first song I think of. Here's a little excerpt from my journal when I did an intentional listening exercise with the song:

Simple lyrics, but it just hits the right spot when one is feeling down, dejected, spiralling. Gives me a wave of calmness.. the instrumentation builds: sad → slightly more hopeful (seeing the light) → opportunity for all the emotions to be released (“tears stream down your face”).
— June 27, 2025

Music is the universal language & communicates emotions without having to say anything; it brings us together & knows no barriers. Thank you to the artists who are brave enough to explore the depths of their own discomforts, feelings & traumas, who bare their souls to strangers in their art. It's through this art that we can find validation, release & comfort.

October 10 is World Mental Health Day. Music is a powerful source of therapy, with the right songs finding you at the right moments of your life — as a cathartic release for the pain you hold, carrying you through the dark to the light towards better days. The feeling that the artist understands exactly what you are going through, giving you the encouragement you need & telling you that you are never alone in your battles. That it’s okay to be feeling this way.

I hope these songs find you at the right time ♡

— xx thia.


Dear You.. I hope this finds you.. | Love poem - IU

 
 

I’ll be there, behind you who walks alone
Singing till the end, this song will be endless
Take a big breath
For you who forgot how to cry aloud…
I’ll sing


Dear You.. days will get better. | Better Days - SuperM

 
 

Just gotta hold on
Yeah, I know that it hurts,
but the sun will shine through
There’s gon’ be better days,
better days, better days
Around the corner, it’s true


Dear You... it’s OK, just let it all out. | BREATHE - Lee Hi

 
 

It’s alright if you run out of breath
No one will blame you
It’s okay to make mistakes sometimes
Because anyone can do so


Dear You.. baby steps are still steps. | One Day At A Time - ATEEZ

 
 

‘Cause in life,
sometimes we need a helping hand
You’ll be alright,
just take it slow,
one day at a time


Dear You.. it’s OK to rest. | When This Rain Stops - Wendy

 
 

I want to hold you
All the things that are
tired from the darkness
I want to recognize them
Everyone has a tomorrow
Sometimes you can stop like this
You can rest
Even when rain falls in my heart
When this rain stops
You can just laugh again


Dear You.. don’t be scared. I’m here. | Hug - SEVENTEEN

 
 

To me you are very precious
You can tell me today was tough
I am here, you suffered a lot
I love you
I will hug you


Dear You.. you’re doing great. | Sunrise - ATEEZ

 
 

Look at me, even if it’s not now
I’ll be waiting for that day


Dear You.. I’m here for you. | 0801 - Stray Kids

 
 

Let out all your tears, I’ll keep you close
Hold on to my hands, don’t give up


Dear You.. you deserve to be loved. | Feel Special - TWICE

 
 

One moment I feel like I’m nothing at all
Like no one would notice if I were gone
But then when I hear you calling me
I feel loved, I feel so special


“Dear Me.. I love & trust myself.” | Dear Me - Taeyeon

 
 

See how I’ve endured
through the long darkness
Even if the night comes again, I won’t hide
I have myself by my side
To the sky that will start to brighten
I will become a spreading light and fly


“Dear Me.. I love all of me.” | Answer : Love Myself - BTS

 
 

The me of yesterday
The me of today
The me of tomorrow
(I’m learning how to love myself)
With no exceptions, it’s all me


Dear You.. embrace your uniqueness. | One In A Million - TWICE

 
 

You are the only person in the world
You are a masterpiece
You’re perfect just the way you are
One in a million
Believe it, you are special


Dear You.. you are perfect. | Youtiful - Stray Kids

 
 

Don’t you ever tell yourself
that you’re not enough
I am certain that you’re truly fine
You are a miracle, miracle
You are youtiful


Dear You.. open your heart to you. | That’s okay - D.O.

 
 

So don’t hide yourself,
will you show me yourself?
Be comfortable with the way you are
That’s right, it’s okay to be okay


Dear You.. the answer is within you. | Magic Shop - BTS

 
 

On days where I hate myself for being me
On days where I want to disappear forever
Let’s make a door, inside your heart
Open the door and this place will await,
Magic Shop


Dear You.. hug your inner child. | My sea - IU

 
 

But still sometimes
There will be days in which
I’ll lose against life
Even if I get lost again,
I know my way back


Dear You.. be brave, it’ll be OK. | Circles - SEVENTEEN

 
 

Let’s sing together
To cover the sadness with the powerful song
It’s gonna be okay, like the hands on the clock
They’ll go in circles back to their places


Dear You.. you’ve worked hard. | End of a day - Jonghyun

 
 

I see all that you do
I know how hard you work
You’re my pride and joy, yes indeed


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